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Current Partner (Create-Partner) — Relationship Analysis & Advice AI Skill

Skill Overview

“Distill” your partner into a dedicated AI Skill. Using a three-layer expert system (a relationship state machine, a policy selector, and a counterfactual simulation engine), it analyzes relationship health, then generates personalized lines of dialogue and recommendations for 23 everyday life scenarios.

Applicable Scenarios

1. Daily Relationship Analysis & Maintenance

When you want to know what state your relationship is currently in, and whether you need to pay attention, call this skill to receive an objective analysis based on scientific models (attachment theory, Gottman’s Four Horsemen, and the Big Five). The system evaluates a Relationship Quality Index (RQI), Attachment Compatibility Score (ACS), and Love Language Match (LLMI), highlighting strengths and growth opportunities.

2. Handling Conflicts and Difficult Situations

When arguments happen, you enter a silent treatment, your partner is feeling low, or you need to apologize, the skill follows a five-step protocol: infer the relationship state (S1–S6) → assess risk → choose the best strategy (P1–P7) → simulate multiple response paths → output word-for-word phrasing. All suggestions are based on your partner’s actual personality traits and communication style, not generic templates.

3. Decision Support for Important Moments

When facing key scenarios such as anniversaries, birthdays, a first date, meeting the family, long-distance relationship planning, etc., the skill provides scenario-specific guidance—gift recommendations, date planning, conversation preparation—helping you make better decisions.

Core Functions

Relationship State Machine (State Engine)

Maps relationship dynamics into six states: honeymoon phase (S1), stable phase (S2), mild detachment (S3), conflict phase (S4), cooling-off period (S5), and the edge of rupture (S6). The system predicts which state the relationship may shift into within a week if no intervention occurs, and the corresponding magnitude of change in RQI—so you can judge urgency.

Policy Selector

Based on your partner’s attachment type (secure, anxious, avoidant), the current relationship state, and the type of conflict, it automatically matches one of the seven intervention strategies as the most suitable: soothing, creating distance, re-attraction, boundary-setting, proactive repair, deep connection, or crisis intervention. Each strategy includes a specific execution script.

Counterfactual Simulation Engine

For your situation, it generates 2–3 candidate responses and predicts an RQI impact score for each. You can clearly see which lines might lower the other person’s defenses, and which might escalate the conflict—so you can choose the best option.

23-Scenario Advice Library

Covers a complete spectrum of scenarios, including emotional conflict (anger, needing comfort, apologizing, jealousy), celebration (anniversaries, birthdays, holidays), dating experience (date planning, travel, increasing intimacy), daily-life practices (household chore negotiations, financial discussions, cohabitation), and relationship development (long-distance, meeting the family, future planning).

Partner Profile & Memory System

Using materials such as chat logs, emails, screenshots, etc., it builds a partner profile across dimensions including MBTI, the Big Five (OCEAN), attachment style, love languages, and decision-making style. The memory system uses an activation-weight model W = E × R × (1 + F), so important shared experiences influence how advice is generated.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does the “Current Partner” Skill analyze my partner?

First, the system uses an “information collection” process to learn about your partner (name, basic background, a personality snapshot). Then it parses the chat logs, emails, screenshots, or directly provided descriptions. Based on these materials, it builds a multidimensional profile (attachment type, personality traits, love language, etc.). All subsequent recommendations reference this profile rather than using generic templates.

Will my data be uploaded to a server?

No. All data processing and storage are done locally. Parsing chat logs, running analysis scripts, and generating advice files are executed through your local Python environment. All files generated by the skill are saved in your working directory under partners/{slug}/ and are not uploaded to any external server.

What does Relationship Quality Index (RQI) mean?

RQI (Relationship Quality Index) is a comprehensive 0–10 score reflecting the current health of the relationship. Evaluation dimensions include: intimacy depth, response speed, conflict frequency, emotional support, shared growth, trust stability, maintaining passion, and future consistency. Scores fall into six tiers: outstanding (9–10), excellent (8–9), good (7–8), fair (6–7), borderline (5–6), and in trouble (0–5). The system also predicts how much RQI may change within a week if no action is taken.